I
really hate the new whatsapp idea of statuses which keep flowing and have consumed
a lot of my data bundles.By the way at times there is really interesting stuff worth data consumption and its where I watched a video that got me wondering what has
befallen our societies. In this video a woman exchanging marriage vows in
probably a church (the location is not clear) where she is instructed to say “for
richer for poorer”. Instead she says for richer for richer and the people were
all agog plus his upcoming husband too. However what I see in the eyes of this
lady regardless being teary is disobedience and greed,
trying to send a signal of “hey I
am not going be on your side when you get broke” to the husband. This
clearly shows the rising of a money wanting generation of girls and I am not
saying all of them do, some don’t really care about that. I partly shared my
thought about this video on Facebook and one of my friends told me how a tongue
can create, which I agree with. But when it comes to money related issues
people claim wealth by using their tongue and don’t work hard thereby ending up
broke. I have witnessed many weddings happen but no one has defied the
instructor’s orders but a great deal have been successful in their marriages
and are rich. Now here comes this lady replying her own things. I know some
might get surprised by a youth looking at this as a 90 year old but lately
young couples mainly get attracted to partners mainly because of their
financial stands. Many marriages have broken up just because of being based on
money and other materialistic things that may fade away.
Anyway
this lady failed to be obedient to whoever was instructing her what to say,
fact being you are not forced to choose a church in which you are to get
married. They also go through a pre-marriage counseling and are told how to
behave when in a home and submission is part the things told to them. What
shows that she might not be submissive is by refusing to say what the
instructor told her. If she did that in the multitudes of people what about
when they are two people (her and the husband). This clearly indicates she is
not ready for poverty regardless of being disobedient. Okay yes no one wants to
be poor but we should let our minds be prepared for anything that might come,
besides life is not a straight line.
well, this is my opinion.
I believe too believe in being open minded especially while in relationships because you may not be able to predict your fate.
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